Love psychology is the psychological phenomena and laws of mental activity when men and women choose their own love object. In general, the reason that people establish love relationship is to meet certain needs. And the criterions of selecting a spouse are decided by outlooks on love, marriage and family values.
Following are main principles:
1. Require appropriate stature, appearance, conversation, manners and demeanor.
2. Require appropriate intelligence, ability, integrity and character.
3. Require suited age, education, occupation, economic status, habits, religious beliefs, interests.
4. Personality, life and work can complement and support each other rather than conflict.
5. Health is also necessary.
Common love psychology:
1. Business is paramount. In fact, nobody can exclude that standard, whether male or female. They all want their spouses to be excellent and become the elite or white-collar in society.
2. Money is paramount. Modern society is a money oriented society. Nothing is more important than living a prosperous life. So many people pay more attention to economic situation first. Their marriage is to get a bed of down to meet their food, clothing, shelter or rely on or to survive.
3. Spirit satisfaction is paramount. Romance is a state of mind that a lot of people are seeking. Especially now, with the progress of social civilization and people’s improving cultural quality, people are often not satisfied with material wealth and begin to pursue the ideal of a state of spiritual satisfaction. They tended to focus on each other’s thoughts and feelings, moral character, personality preferences, etc.
4. Political marriage. In today’s society, we can not rule out the existence of such a psychology. In their eyes, love is only a tool to promote their business.
5. Beauty is paramount. Everyone has his heart in beautiful things. This psychology can not be regarded as a fault especially in the hearts of young people. But the blind pursuit of this physical beauty often leads us to the wrong road. As Goethe said: “looks beautiful can only please a time, the beauty of spirit can be enduring.”
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