From psychological factor, it just needs 30 seconds that makes a person like you.
1. In time. If you really want to show your sincerity, then you must come to the place earlier than her/him at first date. A person, who comes to the place earlier, is certainly favourite. In this way, you not only express your respect, but also give him/her a little of initial psychological stress – he comes earlier than me which shows that he attaches more importance to the date. Reality has proved that it is easier to let him agree to your requests for the sake of making up his feelings of guilt.
2. The line of sight. When staring face to face, the man who withdraws his sight first is a strong one.
People always have this kind of psychological inclination – dedicated sight represents a psychological sense of common identity, while a sudden switch of sight means that this common identity is interrupted. The other will immediately feel a kind of psychological pressure, and then think if he is not interested in me any more.
So, the clever man is always good at using sight to control the situation. If he wants to disrupt the other’s position, he always first withdraws his sight to give pressure. If he wants to pretend sympathy, he would stick to the other’s eyes without wavering. Nevertheless, the time of staring should not be too long, or opposite situation would produce.
3. Smile. Smile is really important. Some people have a very beautiful smile, but the smile may make people uncomfortable. At first date, your smile should be bright, sunny and frank. Do not make people feel a sense of psychological burden. Let the other person feel that you have not so many requests. Only in this way, he would set his heart at rest and accept you easily.
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